The Difficult Man

 

Phrases

  • “People, thank goodness, are very simple if one takes them simply.” (Constance, I.3)
  • “Self-deprecation is just a deceitful trick. When a man starts accusing himself in a love-affair, he's accusing the affair itself. And in no time it's us who are standing in the dock.” (Aggy, I.6)
  • (on the topic of ageing) “Well, there are still moments that take you aback. For instance, when you suddenly realize you have stopped believing that there are people who can explain everything to you.” (John Charles, I.9)
  • “You know, Uncle Charly, I’m a very fair-minded man: So I put women into two main categories: The ones made for love-affairs and the ones for marriage.”
  • “I've learned not to draw conclusions about a woman's state of mind from anything she does.” (John Charles, I.14)
  • “I find famous men odious, but their wives are even worse.” (Constance, II.1)
  • “I'm not considerate: I'm only aware of what's going on inside people and that disturbs me – and then I react by showing people the regard I have for them. My good manners are just a kind of nervous defence, to keep people at arm's length.” (Helen, II.1)
  • “We’re simply not like those mayflies that live only from sunrise to sunset. We’re still there the next day. That doesn’t suit you, a man of your kind.” (Antoinette, II.7)
  • “Speech is based on indecent excess of self-esteem.” (John Charles, II.14)
  • “Everything one utters is indecent. Merely to put anything into words is an indecency. And when one looks at it closely – except that men never look closely at anything in the world – there's something positively shameless in our daring even to experience some things!” (John Charles, III.13)